Here's what I'm working on to help push through those times.
1. No guilt
2. Blog
3. Record everything.
4. When I don't want to train physically, do something mental/spiritual.
5. Do something everyday, no matter how small.
6.Celebrate the wins.
7. Don't get hung up on the numbers, embrace the spirit of the journey.
8. Communicate and commuincate some more.
9. Share my journey with my wife
1. No guilt - This has been my nemisis. I'm very hard on my self as I have a mentality of being the best at everything. Now I'm embracing self gratitude and forgiveness.
2. Blog - Write and write some more. Writing helps me with #7 and helps me be accountable for where I am. Re reading my blogs brings perspective to my journey and re focuses me when I'm not feeling it.
3. Record everything - I don't know where I'm going if I don't know where I started or how far along the journey I am. I record everything including things that were never part of my original requirements. I'm finding that the process of recording has a direct corolation to motivation and sucess.
4. When I don't want to train physically, do something mental/spiritual - I have many requirments for a reason, they all serve me as long as I reconginze this. There have been days already when I didn't want to train. Instead of feeling guilting about this I showed up and watched class, wrote a blog or read mastery.
5. Do something everyday, no matter how small. There been days when all is did was drink a green smoothie. It was a small accomplishment and I recorded it.
6. Celebrate the wins - No matter how small it is I take some time to celebrate the win. These posative wins are motivation and I can use all the motivation I can get. I don't diminsh the power of celbrating my wins.
7. Don't get hung up on the numbers - This is a tough one I have a lot of goals I'm striving to accomplish. However if all I'm focused on is meeting these numbers I'm going to miss the spirit of the I Ho Chuan journey. This is a journey of mastery that none of us are ever going to achieve. But by moving in that direction every single day no matter how fast or slow I'm still moving in the right direction.
8. Commuincate and communicate some more - This is a new one for me and arguably the most impactiful on my year so far. In the past when I didn't like something, I'd withdraw and go silent. Not this year, I've communicate more openly and more often then ever before. I've utilized "one on ones" with this and those conversations have been a great help.
9. Share my journey with my wife - In the past I did this alone. This year my wife is a key part of my journey. I share my blogs with her as soon as I write them, and I talk with her as much as I can. She's my biggest cheerleader and I can't do this with out her.
I realized after reading what I've wrote, that all of these things are contributing to my engagement of which is what I've been missing.
Mr. Repay